लहरों से डर कर नौका पार नहीं होती
कोशिश करने वालों की हार नहीं होती
नन्हीं चींटी जब दाना लेकर चलती है
चढ़ती दीवारों पर, सौ बार फिसलती है
मन का विश्वास रगों में साहस भरता है
चढ़कर गिरना, गिरकर चढ़ना न अखरता है
आख़िर उसकी मेहनत बेकार नहीं होती
कोशिश करने वालों की हार नहीं होती
These are some lines of the poem written by Mr. Sohamlal Drivedi.
Whenever I read or hear, it gives me Goosebumps. This always enlightens
to introspect me, How far can I go? And I am always working on the
same.
Nowadays, what I am witnessing that in this 4G world, everyone
is expecting their lives to be as easy and magical as smartphones, one click and
you got it! Because of these high expectations, they are taking some
inevitable steps like Suicide. I had read somewhere that "suicide is
a permanent solution to temporary problems". Before 1 month, one of the
talented actors did the same. I am not in the discussion that whether it was
murdered or suicide or someone forces him to do the same. I don't know
what it was. But I know there are many people who are doing the same. Reasons
may be different like, some boy/girl rejected the proposal, unsatisfactory promotions,
trivial issues between husband and wife, public pressure or family pressure,
etc. In today's newspaper, I had just read that brother denying a TV remote,
and his sister attempt suicide. I don't know what the cost of our life is. Is it a failure?
Failure is a part of our life. That we have to accept it.
Passion and Patience both are required. We have to deal with it. Let's see some
examples. If I ask who is the star of the millennium? The answer is the one and
only Mr. Abhishek Bachchan. Unfortunately, he didn't get success like his
father, mother, and wife. But still, he is giving his best. unfortunately, he is
the talk of the town on social media for his failures or low box office
collections. Despite this he manages to have a calm composed mind to give
them a befitting reply. Recently, his appearance in one web series "Breathe",
has received immense applause and promising success. This year his other movie
is also coming. He never loses his confidence. There are many instances
like this where parents are victorious and their children are not.
As I mentioned earlier that everyone has to face a struggle. We
have to maintain our patience also. When Yash Johar came into the film industry
he struggled a lot. And because of that Karan Johar is ruling the industry. On
the contrary, Yash Chopra was successful, Uday Chopra is not, in the same way,
Fardeen khan, Tushar Kapoor, and Randhir Kapoor, and many more are there where
their father tastes the victory and their children are still
waiting.
We have to take immediate control of our mental, emotional,
physical destiny. Let's see some steps:
Motivate yourself
1. Tape a 3 X 5 card with I
AM NUMBER ONE printed on it to your bathroom mirror, where you can
see it first thing every morning. Read it and smile.
2. Keep a similar
card in your office or desk or soft copy on your mobile and
PC’s desktop.
3. Repeat this
statement 10 times every night before going to bed. I AM THE
NUMBER ONE PERSON IN MY LIFE.
4. Put negative thoughts –
envy, jealousy, greed, hate – out of your life.
5. Give yourself a pat on the
back at least once every day.
6. In your friend circle, you need
to keep one Jambvan. Jambvan is one of the characters present in Ramayan
who inspired Shree Hanuman to fly. And the rest is history. In the same
way, we also require one Jambvan in our life who will light the fire of
faith in ourselves when it gets dimmed. The bottom of the line is to
have faith in yourself, and believe that you are the greatest and you are
the champion. This practice will give you a self-kick and live life to complete
our dream.
I want to ask you one question, who is the hero? A
person whose statue we can see in our city. We are very well aware that
generally, birds are using those statues. Or a hero means a person
whose photos are printed in newspapers and magazines. We are also aware
that the next day that newspaper we found at Shop for packing
material. Who is the hero?It has been said that after our death god will ask,
what did you do in your entire life? Did you enjoy your life? Or you just
came as you were! You can’t say like, yes I enjoyed it because I did
one murder, 1 robbery, but on 2nd attempt, I didn’t get success and so I
am here. The reason being the next question goes this way, ”did
anybody experience happiness because of you?”
Our last performance is important instead of past performance.
Forget about what you did. Remember only one thing what you are doing and what
you will do. People who always remember his past will ultimately walk in the
footsteps of Rajesh Khanna and one who is focused on his last performance
eventually becomes the hero forever-Mr. Amitabh Bachchan. If you were lucky
enough to spend your teenage in the late ’80s and 90’s you will be aware of how
the grand arrival of Big B tossed the stardom and fame of the first-ever
superstar Rajesh Khanna. Even today whether it be miss universe or very own son
of big B, Amitabh Bachchan still has an upper hand over films, acting, and many
more.
Just remember one thing:
A psychological Adult is a Choice Maker
A psychological Child is a Consequence Receiver
A Choice Maker is like a TIGER in the Jungle
A Consequence Receiver is like a TIGER in the Zoo
Now it's your choice what you want to become Tiger in the Jungle
or Tiger in the Zoo?
