Yes, yesterday already passed by, but tomorrow is in our hand. What happened today, how it happened? Very boring day. All strategies are wrong, mom and dad scolded , breakup with Girlfriend/Boyfriend, not receiving the contract, having a huge dead stock, not in a good mood, viral fever, exam paper is too tough, our family members or friend circle tease us , accident of our bike, purse lost, receiving a memo at Job.
The list is endless, as life is permanent tragedy! That’s why laughter is so precious, as the proverb goes "Laughter is the best medicine ”. We never know what tragedy will happen with us. But it is fact that that event which is harmful for us, is not with us in past, today is with us but tomorrow will be pass to another. Because all days are not the same, some days bring joy in our life while some days bring sorrow. Another new day, new event, new hope, new courage!
We are discussing on the different national issues, we also want our children to carry forward our virtues and traditions. The art of praying is one of the unique arts which one can learn. The true art of praying is to pray deep from your heart. A prayer that comes right from your heart is so vivid, that even the almighty would wake up from his deep sleeps. But that is also a fact that youth suicide ratio in India is alarmingly high!
All experts and politicians show their concerns for suicide of poor farmers but nobody is thinking for the high ratio of the suicide of teenagers. But government blindly ignores this alarming ratio.
I don’t know why these incidents are so rapid nowadays. Teenage means the age of the adolescence ,energy , will power, freshness ,enthusiasm ,trying new things, thinking about the future ......... in short it’s an age where you are live to each and every moment, but still their hopes dwindle down and they make an attempt for suicide.
Because the youngsters are still adolescent, they are not able to distinguish between right and wrong. Still they are believed to walk on different shades of rainbow. We are already given lots of jeans, cell phone but not given the realistic thought. They know dance very well but they fear to face the society. That’s why they are in dilemma when they are facing some difficulties. So, when exam papers are not going well, the dilemma is not because of exams but because of others........ They worry for others!! I am not up to my family expectations…. Tension … Tension … Tension
Don’t worry Be Happy. As you grow up, you will realize that, peoples never comment. Apart from your near and dear one, if others praise you then don’t be on the seventh cloud…… and if they comment on you then don’t lose hope! Because their comments are their opinion, not the truth. If someone showing his/her regret for the exam paper then don't ask for sympathy, gain empathy. If someone shows off achievements of his children in study, then don’t be ashamed because he is not god that will keep you a “loser” and his/her child “champion”.
Let’s learn some life skills. Failure is an event, not a permanent. You will be able to do an outstanding job, not when you are out of tension but when you know how to tackle that tension. But if you are always crying, then failure will be your permanent stamp. If due to continuous failure, Mr. Amitabh Bachchan would have attempted a suicide, the by now his name would have been inked as a failure. But he struggled, fought back and then, the turning point, after KBC , he again got back his fame.
That’s the point. In a crisis, in cricket, batsmen already aware how to hold their wicket. If you are on the wicket then runs will automatically come your way. Then as you get a chance, make the most out of it. Our life is also like a cricket, in a difficult situation we are crying, confusing in a difficult situation, everywhere it is darkness, we are getting tired that is a natural things. Without diving in river, it’s impossible to cross it. Someone is showing or hiding, but that is the fact that everyone is facing the difficulties.
But who can complete that phase and prepared for the war, that one will kill the Ravan. Like failure we cannot grab success and keep it tightly held in our fist! Suddenly comes in our lap, sometimes will flow rivers of sweat, but we fail to achieve it! But the thing which is permanent is “Preparedness”. You are always ready because opportunity will come from anywhere, so the result of the exam will never keep a longer impact on you.
Dearest Student, buddies just think, your goal is mark sheet or a career? Because nobody knows the marks of successful persons then how it is possible for failed person? Remember, career is not directly related to education degree but it is related with a man. There are so many students who cleared MA with political science, but out of that each one will not become the Chief Minister. After some time, contact points of our parents also are also not useful, otherwise Abhishek Bachchan would have been the biggest super star of the India and Rohan Gavaskar , the best batsman of the Indian Cricket team.
At the end, we are killing our self. Suicide is not the permanent solution for failure in exam or not getting god job due to recession. If we are thinking for suicide due to bad circumstances then after death it will be much better situation, then that is wrong because nobody will prove that. God knows situation will be more complicated. There is a risk, fear and require more hard work to put a step in an unknown situation but it is better to fight in a knowing situation. It may be reverse that after suicide, life of our near and dear One’s would be worst and the stamp of the failure will be permanent!
Buck up, If you fall down then remove your dust, Come on, fight out! Remember, the final score of the innings will be deciding on the last ball not on the first ball. People salute who stands bravely in the worst situation. Don’t waste your time! Invest your time! What happen if due to some less marks, you are not eligible to go in your lovable field. More than 90% celebrities got success apart from their professional degree. It might be possible that other person will also salute to your Preparedness, though you don’t have the degree. The real joy of the life is in the suspense, what will be happen next. Friend’s history teaches a mystery of life. If everything happens according to our will then, there is no mystery and where there is no mystery, how are we going to create a great history. And if everything goes as we want then there will be a day, when we have lost the true taste of life.
So, cheer up, improve yourself and don’t escape!
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