Love

Friends, Today I am writing on a different topic. After writing on topics like motivation and business topics, I choose different topic to write. So, Today I choose to write on Love.

Before you read further. I want to clarify one thing with all of you that “I am not against LOVE”. But recently I came to know about so called love story…And I am expressing my views on the same.
Love...Seems everybody have their own definition for it. Everybody wants to be loved but everyone is not good at it, but the question still remains- what the LOVE is?

"You're my babe", "my sweet heart”, “I love you", but only if you're with me. Is this Love. Or To have a physical attraction which is famous now a day… is Love.

In today’s fast changing world, what today’s guys/girls are doing, they chat 6-7 days and then start feeling that they have fallen in love & act in same way. Then they propose, hang out and break up within a month or 6 months. Some convert their love in marriage also where some get success and some fails.

Now days, whenever we ask a couple who are in love that what will you do after your marriage, what are your plan, how will you earn your bread and butter. Answer is NO IDEA. And the fact is that they are in love and want to marry with each other. Just want to share one of my poems when person is in love,

The cold breeze tickles my skin
Eyes filled with freshness and heart feels cold
Thunder is surrounding, waves are approaching
But everywhere I see her…I see her...I see her...

On a full moon day her illusion appears,
And her eyes appear in the sparkling stars,
And her laughter echos in gentle flow of stream
But everywhere I see ...I see her...I see her....

Though we are miles and miles away from each other
But our hearts are one
Though she is not seen by me,
Yet everywhere I see ...I see her...I see her…
If this is the love then what can I say for this,

• Someone makes you smile when you’re tired
• When our mommy makes coffee for daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.’
• When your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.’
• When mother cares for you a lot, no one care for you like her.
• When your father always wears that loose socks but he never let you wear that. He bring for you new one.
• When your younger sister take care of yours when you are ill and lying on bed.
• When your brother cries for you at your bad time and make you sure that you are not alone.
• When a sister tie a great bond in her brother hand without any demand.
• When they are not only friends they are your great supporter and backbone, gem of your life.

And there are many more…list is endless. But still we forget all these things and call our 20 or 30 days or I can say 2 to 4 months old relationship with love and forget years of relationship with our family members. Sometimes one unknown person is so important for us rather than family members. We loved that boy or girl who behave goody goody in front of us and forget our parents, brother or sister who always care for us.

It has been observed that in many cases when someone is in love, they left studies, parents, family members, neighbors, each and every helping hand. Don’t have bright future. But they left the homes and feel its victory of Love. Sometimes I read in news paper also this type of incident that at the age of 20 they become parents.  They are not even aware what to do with that kid. And how they will do the upbringing of the kid and develop their carrier.

Just want to ask some questions,

What is love?

Other person’s happiness is more than yours or our happiness is more than others.

What is Love? When you bring smile or bring tears ….

I just only want to say…. Love is a very small four letters word but the fathom of this word is deeper than the Mariana trench and altitude is higher than the Mount Everest!