Today’s
world is so fast. World is changes so quickly, in just a blink of eye, one can
see the change. Each and every one is forgetting what life is and how to live
it. There is a saying that “Everyone is living life but true life is that live
which is his own will”.
Today
each and everyone is so busy in their life. Nobody is bothering for their
personal life and also not bothering what others are doing though he/she is
his/her sibling. Today we are living a life as a robot, working on a same
function. As we are getting to attached to technology or making a distance from
our loved once like family and friend then we are inviting a life that only
give us loneliness. It might be possible that due to good study or good marks
we can get good package, good salary but we are not thinking for us, just
thinking for I. If as a father prospective , he is thinking his son or daughter
want good marks in exam and want to make a good life but he is not thinking
that it might possible that if he got the new job and then he would get the job at
abroad and he hasn’t time for his family. So, it’s a big question that what we
want?
Another
thing is today everyone is busy with their own life, nobody have a time.
Sometimes there is a big question that a businessman who is managing 100 Cr.
Business has a same 24 hours as normal men have. He can manage 100 Cr. Business
in a single day where we are not managing our life within 24 hours. Start by
looking at “the big picture true”. Ask yourself how you will spend your time
over the course of an average workday. There are 24 precious hours in a day. Many people allocate their time unconsciously, which means they don’t plan
their activities- they let other people and circumstances dictate how they
spend their time. Don’t let be this with us. Decide how your ideal day should
look; then do what you can do to make it happen. There will be plenty of occasions
when you have to forsake your daily schedule because of some opportunity or
emergency, but by the large, you want to stick to the same daily schedule.
Sometimes
due to busy schedule, we even not bother about our physic, mental peace. Due to
this, sometime we take unnecessary decision that we don’t want. Today’s
generation don’t want to face the “Struggle”. STRUGGLE is the name of the every
game. Every successful person in their life’s, began their journey as a
struggle. But the fact remains same that no matter how much you have achieved and
where you have arrived, the struggle never seems to
end. If we are talking about what today youth wants the answer is “FAME”, they
want to be a Famous. There is an epidemic of fame obsessed
youngsters between the ages of 15 and 25, who wrongly believe that becoming
famous is a shortcut to wealth and eternal happiness. But let me tell you that
nothing worth having comes that easily. If I am talking about
Amitabh Bachchan, he is not a super star from day one. He also gave 17
Super Flop film in his beginning. We can pick any famous personality, we can
see everyone faced “struggle” in their life though he is Amitabh Bachchan,
Sachin Tendulkar, Shahrukh khan or Charli Cheplin.
Fame
is not easy to handle. There are also some normal people who turn into monsters
overnight. “First you struggle to attain and then you struggle to retain".
“Struggle”, That's the name of the game”. Fame is scary. The more you
have, the more you need, and the more you have to lose. That's really
tough to handle. So, there is a big question and that is “how to handle
this unpredictable terrain”,and answer is also simple “enjoy it” because
it won't last. Get the best experiences you can gain from it, because the celebrity
status can bring great privileges and unbelievable opportunities. But don't
think its forever. It's not!
Sometimes
some people are on the top of the career but due to some circumstances they
choose a big steps or we can say a shortcut to moved out from struggle or pain
i.e., “SUSIDE”. What can
be so intolerable, so unpalatable and so unforgettable that one has to commit
suicide to forget it? And how are you certain that death will end the pain?
What if the only thing that death does obliterate is the faintest glimmer of
hope? According to Mr. Shive khera, “Suside
is a permanent solution for a temporary situation” there is a big question, why
today’s youth not realize the importance of life? Why did they forget to look
over the hill at the rising sun just waiting to break through the dark clouds?
There is no greater sin than that of suicide because you are kicking God’s gift
of life in the face and proving you are not worth it. If you believe in
afterlife and rebirth, books on the subject suggest that people who quit life
voluntarily without learning their life lessons are bound to be born to such
lives again and again till the lesson is learnt. .
Life
is not always easy and it is the duty of parents to ground their children and
instill values that will help them deal with the tougher moments. And, it is
our duty to ourselves that we learn to accept the brickbats with the bouquets,
that we learn to deal with difficulties just as we enjoy the benefits of life
and living. There is no greater cowardice than enjoying your spot in the sun
and quitting the stage the moment life gets a little rough.
For
Suside, there is a big reason and that is Expectation. We never teach our children
how to face failure. What we can learn from failure. In today’s scenario if
someone face failure then we are bombarding to that person with all sides. We
all try to give advice to that person as if we are an extra ordinary person and
never face failure in a life. If both young and old generation live together
and passes the thoughts with each other than life become awesome. We have a
lots of things because “To be old is to have less time before you and
more mistakes behind and because of that have a great experience where for new
generation have a lots of time to do something new.
We
are leaving a life for us, only or else only for our family but if we leaving a
life for others then there is different enjoyment of life. According to
me try to make smile on other’s face. Because that is a tuff thing to do.
Tragedy is silence and is easy to hurt or make cry but comedy is difficult
because when a person try to make other laugh, laughter is physical, first you
have to physically smile, stretch your cheeks then he has to be more comical to
show his teeth, then make sound. So, one has to that strong power to create a
smile to another
Try
to live our own life don’t want to become somebody else. Take some inspiration
from your idle but don’t copy or follow them blindly.
This
topic is endless topic. How to live life but if we care some of the points then
it’s to live our life.
1.
Live for others.
2.
If you are taking a decision and if it hurts other but that
decision is good for both he as well as you then take it in such a way that
it will good for both.
3.
You don’t know after this life, you again get the chance to live
as a human. So, grape this opportunity and perform your best.
4. Always give 100% to your work, Because 110% is not possible. You can not add 110 ml water in 100 ml bottle.:-)
5.
Live life as if today is your last day.
6. Built a best relationship at least with once apart from your
mother, wife, husband, father. With whom you can share your life’s good as well
as bad experience.
7.
Don’t try to prove or listen others where you do something
really well for them.
8.
Be honest, work hard & smart, you will never go wrong
9. If If you have a character, then reputation always follow, if you have
only reputation then character may not follow. Popularity and respect are two
different things. Rahul Mahajan is also popular but do we respect him?
11.
It is not true that if u see the more Diwali, then u can
celebrate the Diwali.
